It's not fair that we have to live with Tinnitus, and the rare Hyperacusis, both conditions are very detrimental at any level. The afflictions are not researched enough from lack of funding, so there is no cure, or no manageability (yet). The patient has to go through so much just to get by every single day, and not a single soul understands, but us. They say that you need to live in the patient's shoes to really get it, and this goes with anything. When asked by family or friend's how we are doing, sometimes we may need to lie, and say that we are doing "alright", when really and truly we would like to say, that we are doing "absolute garbage". In my experiences, I have told people in my circle, that I am tired, can't do this anymore, need help etc. When this happens, I get "Well it's like any other health condition, take a pill, and manage yourself better", or they will stop talking to me all together, so sometimes, I need to lie to k...
David Vance. Hyperacusis, Tinnitus & Chronic Pain